The Power of a Group (90 Second Read)
Daniel Crosby • December 6, 2022

The Power of a Group


You have a problem and you need to make a decision to solve that problem.


Before you make that decision be sure to consider WHAT is happening and WHY it is happening.


It is easy to be blind to the WHY when you are too close to the problem.


This is where the POWER OF A GROUP is incredibly valuable. You want a group where you know people are for you…


…for your success, 

…for your health, 

…cheering you on to win. 


You also want a group who is unbiased enough to be outside of your problem. They are FOR YOU, but they are NOT YOU. 


3 Characteristics of a Good Group:


  1. The group must be safe. (We don’t blast one another for pitching ideas.)
  2. The group must be real and vulnerable. (We’re allowed to disagree and express fears and passions)
  3. The group must be brutally honest. (We’re expected to respectful but not over-filter if we have something to add)


Without these three characteristics you run the risk of getting more biased information that could move you toward the wrong decision.


One of the best places to begin finding a unbiased opinion is counseling. Counselors shouldn’t make your decision for you, but offer you SAFE, REAL, and HONEST feedback to help you make a better decision.


If you or someone you know is facing a big decision, please don’t hesitate to reach out. I’m here to help.


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