The question is not IF we are going to have struggles in our lives, It’s WHEN.
The thing that is worse than hurting is hurting alone.
So here’s my big question for you today:
When your marriage is falling apart…
When you get a cancer diagnosis…
When you are faced with a major life change or transition…
WHO ARE YOUR PEOPLE?
We were not created to live life all alone.
If you don’t have a person or a group of people that you can call when things get tough, then you’re putting yourself at risk.
WHO ARE YOUR PEOPLE?
Maybe you’ve been burned by people in the past and you’ve distanced yourself from relying on others.
Maybe you just feel awkward or guilty putting yourself out there or asking.
I get it, but when it comes down to living life, we need connection.
Here’s a great resource if you’ve been hurt by people in your past:
“Safe People” by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend.
Ideas to begin reconnecting:
- 1. Get back into a good church and begin serving to get involved or join a small group.
- 2. Get involved with a local hobby club with like-minded people who enjoy what you enjoy.
- 3. Reach out to old friends that you may have distanced from and ask about doing dinner soon.
- 4. Go connect with a counselor to get started with connection and brainstorm on more ideas.
What other ideas do you have for connection and finding your people?


