Day 5
How to Keep the Spark Alive in Your Marriage (60 Second Read)
Two of the most common phrases I hear from couples is:
“We love each other but we’re not in love anymore.”
OR
“We just feel like roommates.”
Here is a surefire way to keep the spark alive in your marriage:
ADVENTURE
If you aren’t having NEW adventures together then your marriage is going to get stale.
Marriage is more than working, paying the bills on time, taking the kids to soccer practice, and getting dinner ready.
Those are all good things, but where’s the ADVENTURE?
Adventure involves RISK – Try a new activity that neither of you know how to do. You may completely fail and you’ll have a good memory to laugh about in the years to come.
Adventure involves DIFFERENT – Go try the new restaurant in town that just opened. It might be fantastic. It might be terrible. Either way, we’re in for something exciting.
Adventure involves ACCOMPLISHMENT – Achieving a new goal alongside your spouse creates significant bonding and a sense of winning together.
HOMEWORK: Ask your husband or wife if they’ll go on an adventure with you. When they give you a weird look, describe for them what you mean and begin brainstorming on something you could do together.
As always, if you’re stuck then don’t hesitate to reach out to me personally. I help couples reconnect every day and get back on track to having a marriage they’re excited to go home to.


