What Do You Identify As? (2 Minute Read)
Daniel Crosby • May 31, 2023

We are big University of Georgia football fans.


I often laugh at Georgia games when I see grown men fanboying over 17-year-old high school recruits. They know their names, height, weight, completion percentages, etc. They even shout the names of these kids from the stands just wanting to get a little head nod from a high school junior in hopes that that kid will be Georgia’s next superstar. I AM A GEORGIA FAN! GO DAWGS!


What do you identify as?


For some it’s their favorite sports team like I said above.


For some it’s their gender or sexual orientation. They believe that the LGBT community will fulfill them and tell them who they are. I AM GAY/TRANS/PAN!


For some it’s their work. They call the shots and they’re respected here. Maybe they aspire to build a great business empire. They believe their job will tell them who they are. I AM A CEO!


For some it’s their status on social media. If I can build a following and post the right things then I will get more likes and hearts and thumbs up. They believe a growing personal brand will tell them who they are. I AM AN INFLUENCER!


For some it’s their family. They pour everything into their children. They sacrifice and fight for their kids to give their kids the best chance for success. They believe that raising admirable kids will tell them who they are. I AM A MOM/DAD!


For some it’s their Christian faith. They live by a set of standards prescribed in the Bible. They believe that there is a God who is bigger than them, who created them, and who tells them their mission and their purpose in life. I AM A CHILD OF GOD!


What do you identify as?


Final question:


Has your identity given you what it promised to give you? Has it fulfilled you?


If your identity has left you unfulfilled, chasing the next best thing, and wanting more, then it might be time to reconsider what you’re placing your identity in.


Need help? These are big questions. Don’t go at it alone. Go find a GOOD counselor in your area to bounce ideas off. A GOOD counselor will ask you GOOD questions to help you sort out these big questions that you may be wrestling with.


“Listen to counsel and receive instruction so that you may be wise later in life.” Proverbs 19:20


Depression and Movement
By Daniel Crosby September 8, 2025
Depression and Movement Alright, you knew it was coming. This is the 2nd most important way to beat depression. The 1st is Connection. You can’t beat this thing alone. The 2nd is Exercise or Movement. I say movement because when you’re struggling, you probably don’t feel like training for a marathon or joining a CrossFit gym. But when you don’t move at all, you don’t grow at all. Depression tells us to close the blinds and to lay in bed all day long in the dark accomplishing nothing. All that is going to do is stir up more Depression. Movement gives us a small goal to achieve and it get our muscles engaged and our blood and brain chemicals flowing again. You are just simply going to feel more alive. Here are 3 simple ways to start moving again: 1. Begin with gentle movement. • It doesn’t have to involve sweating • Try a yoga video on YouTube or just • Do 5 minutes of stretching 2. Set a reminder to do three 5-minute mood walks during the day • Walk around the building at work • Walk around the house on a rainy day • Notice your breath and the cadence of your arms and legs swinging back and forth 3. Make movement enjoyable • Walk to an enjoyable destination like the local bakery or to your favorite spot on the greenway to get a picture of a waterfall • Listen to your favorite music or podcast • Socialize while moving like the old ladies power walking at the mall Homework: Try doing some sort of new movement this week that’s out of the norm for you and let the rest of us know what you did and if it made you feel better.
Depression and Routine Habits
By Daniel Crosby September 1, 2025
Depression + Routine Habits Ask any Kindergarten teacher if structure and routine is important. I think we crave comfort and consistency of what we know because it makes us feel safe. We like our favorite food at our favorite restaurant and we sit in the same place at church most of the time. But when depression hits, it can throw off our healthy routines and even spiral us into unhealthy habits. If you’re battling some depression you might be letting some stuff slide, like cleaning the house, eating healthy, or getting to work on time. 3 Ways to Reignite Healthy Routines: 1. Write it down – • Write down a checklist of to-do items the night before for what I plan to accomplish the next day. These can be big goal like filing your taxes or small personal hygiene goals like brushing your teeth. 2. Use accountability – • Piggyback onto someone else’s routine. If you know your buddy goes to the gym every morning at 5am, ask if he will call you every morning for a month until you create your own habit. 3. Reward consistency, not intensity, growth, or perfection – • We’re looking for reps. So what if you didn’t talk to anyone at church or sign up to serve in the children’s ministry. You showed up 5 Sundays in a row! That’s fantastic! Now go get ice cream! Homework: Pick one thing you need to get back into the routine of doing and try one of ideas above and tell us how you did.
By Daniel Crosby August 25, 2025
Depression + Meaning Viktor Frankl, a psychiatrist during WW2, was imprisoned in a concentration camp for most of the war and when the war ended he wrote a book titled “Man’s Search for Meaning.” He believed that the absence of meaning is what leads to depression. Out of his experiences, he developed a therapy technique to help people find meaning in their lives. So if a lack of meaning is fueling some of your depression, here’s what Dr. Frankl would suggest. 1. Contribute to the world through work, projects, or any form of creation that brings a sense of purpose. • You were created for a unique purpose that only you can fulfill. What is it? 2. Experience the world, including appreciating beauty, encountering love, and engaging with others. • You were created to live, not to scroll. What did you experience today that made you feel alive? 3. Choose a positive, responsible attitude towards unavoidable suffering, such as illness or loss. • You were created to be resilient and live in hope. What hard thing have you overcome because you are strong? Homework: • I want you to write down which of those 3 might be lacking in your life right now. • Then I want you to write down one small way that you can go meet that need for meaning in your life.