The Difference Between Anxiety and Fear (60 Second Read)
Daniel Crosby • October 9, 2023

You know it and I know it. Anxiety is wreaking havoc in our lives right now.


Maybe it’s that feeling like your marriage is just hanging on by a thread or maybe it’s having to walk back into work tomorrow with that boss who is just a bully.


You’re wondering if it can get better. (It can) You’re also wondering how. (Hang on, we’ll get to that)


So, let’s begin with the basics.


We use the terms interchangeably, but we can also make a case that there’s a difference between ANXIETY and FEAR.


ANXIETY is the perception that you could be in danger.


If you’re going for a hike and you see a sign at the trailhead and says “Beware: Active Bear Habitat” you are likely going to feel ANXIOUS and keep your eyes peeled.


FEAR is the response to literal danger.


If you’re hiking and you see some cute baby bears and then turn around and you can feel the hot breath of mama bear in your face, then you’re experiencing FEAR. Bad news, you’re going to be dinner.


Why argue about the words and definitions? Trust me, this is going to matter in later posts.


Don’t worry, we’re going to talk about some ways you can change (not eliminate) fear and anxiety.


This journey is not for the faint of heart and it might surprise you. Are you ready?


HOMEWORK:

Write down the struggles that you're facing. It may sound like this: "I am afraid of/that__________." Are your life struggles PERCEIVED danger or LITERAL danger? Categorize them on paper or in the Notes App on your phone.


Every day I help hurting frazzled people by walking with them as they get back on the path toward becoming who God created them to be. Shoot me an email if there’s anything I can do to help you or someone you know.

"Uncomfortable" Book Review

By Daniel Crosby • May 7, 2025
“Uncomfortable: The Awkward and Essential Challenge of Christian Community” by Brett McCracken is a great book to read if you’re a church person or if you’ve become somewhat detached and frustrated with the church. McCracken challenges all of us, conservatives and progressives, to think about the WHY behind Christian community and one of the fundamentals of finding the WHY is approaching it with humility. Maybe you having it your way and telling everyone else they’re wrong wasn’t exactly what Christ had in mind when He instituted the church. iPhones and iPads seem to have morphed into iChurch in a sense. American culture has turned Christ’s church into a business that caters to our comforts aesthetically, relationally, and politically. It’s made us consumers, critics, and reviewers of the Church rather than servants of THE Kingdom. It’s not wrong to have preferences and to like some things better than others. Music, décor, and speaking style are all over the spectrum at different churches, but he argues that the point of picking a church and serving in it should be less about does it meet my needs and more about whether I’m showing up and using this place along with this group to glorify God. He annoyed me in parts because he steps on my toes but maybe we need that a little more often. If you’re disenfranchised with the status quo and you feel like it’d be good to be challenged about church then go grab “Uncomfortable” by Brett McCrackin.

Look for Beautiful Things

By Daniel Crosby • April 28, 2025
Look for beautiful things when you're restless, uncomfortable, or on edge. There's something about acknowledging the good around us that helps us reset and realize that it's not all bad. If you're struggling to see beautiful things in the world, come see me and we can talk more about it. www.danielcrosbycounseling.com

"The Needs of the Heart" Book Review

By Daniel Crosby • April 24, 2025
“The Needs of the Heart” by Chip Dodd is a book that will blow your mind. When I picked it up, it’s a very small thin book. Less than 100 pages. I assumed I’d breeze through it in a couple of hours. About a month later I finished digesting it. The truth is we cannot fully live the life God has called us to unless we acknowledge that we do have needs, that these needs are good, and discover the healthy ways of meeting these needs. Chip takes common human needs like Security and Accomplishment and he unpacks what they really are pointing us to in his typical concise but brilliant depth. There’s no fluff here. With chapters just 3-4 pages each, you’re going to want to have a highlighter ready to underline, to ponder these topics, and maybe then to discuss them with someone you know and trust. You’ll come away from this book with a deeper sense what is already fulfilled within you and ones that might be lacking where you need to go do a deep dive with a lot of prayer and introspection. If you liked Chip’s book “The Voice of the Heart,” this is one is your next read. Go grab “The Needs of the Heart” by Chip Dodd.