"Prisoner of Another War" Book Review
Daniel Crosby • August 15, 2024

“Prisoner of Another War” by Marilyn Murray is a heartbreaking and hope-filled book all at the same time. Murray is a trauma expert in the mental health field having overcome her own trauma after decades of wrestling with it.


This is her own personal story, a memoir that shows her depths of despair and her rise out of the ashes. She was able to overcome her past abuse and, out of it, develop her own theory for helping others heal.


It’s a vulnerable story that shows how deeply our hurt and despair can affect us mentally, physically, and spiritually when it is tucked away hidden. It is hope-filled in showing how courage and hard work in walking through our hurt and opening it up can be life giving and inspiring to ourselves and others.


What if we all had the courage to face our hurts and then let God use that hurt and healing to help others? That is the message I got from this incredible story. I say it all the time, but the thing that is worse than hurting is hurting alone. Marilyn Murray’s story has surely given countless others the permission and strength to face their own pasts and to find healing in “Prisoner of Another War.”

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