Follow Through (60 Second Read)
Daniel Crosby • June 28, 2023

Day 16 (EXCITING BONUS PDF FREE!)


Follow Through (60 Second Read)

 

If something in these last 15 days hit home and gave you something to begin chewing on then that’s great!


That’s the 1st step!


The most important step, however, is FOLLOW THROUGH.


Do something about it.


What will you change? What tough conversation will you commit to having? What book will you commit to buying and reading?


That is what will make all the difference in your marriage.


Let me help you get the conversation started…


Try saying this, “So I’ve been reading these 15 short snippets daily and some of them really seemed relevant to me. Would you look at them and then tell me which ones you feel like might apply to us?”


What’s the worst they could say? If they say “no” then it’s ok. They aren’t ready to make changes like you are yet. You can still make a difference in your marriage. Be patient. It takes time.


I will email you a PDF of all 15 Days in a pretty, quick-read booklet. Feel free to distribute it as far and wide as you would like. Send it to all your friends, family, pastors, Sunday school classes, etc.


Here’s the fun part:

 

If you would help me by doing this:

 

1. Like and Follow my Daniel Crosby Counseling Facebook and/or Instagram pages.

2. Message or Email me your email address.

3. I will personally email you the PDF. No tricks. No strings attached. FREE! I just want to get the word out and help couples begin the conversation.


As always, if you’re stuck then don’t hesitate to reach out to me personally. I help couples reconnect every day and get back on track to having a marriage they’re excited to go home to.

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